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He says he's realized he isn't capable. I just had to post. I am so hurt, betrayed and self-blaming. We have hooked up once since then and I feel like a fraud. I am pretending I am ok I am thinking he will come around I have tried so hard to find fun and enjoy my life but I am crushed.

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When his physically around he flirts and will touch my leg and he has asked me thou if that's okay and I said yes we can still stay friends and flirt and the problem is I accepted the part of us being just friends but apart of me wants to be the one to hold him when his sad and it gets hard cause Looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend do really like him but don't want to break what we. He mentioned that he trust me and his against relationships right now because of the past and what we have is perfect and I agree to all of it yet it hurts uis I can't be his better half.

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All of our friends, and even people who would just hang around in our group but didn't know us too well, would ask if we were a couple and that they saw that he really liked me.

After talking to some of my close girlfriends about it they encouraged me to talk to him, but I was always too chicken to because I didn't want to lose his friendship. Well, one of my girlfriends decided she'd had enough of this back and forth and decided to tell him I had feelings for him and that I was waiting for him to make a. He said She said that he better get his rear in gear or he'll risk losing looking to someone.

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I don't even know where to begin. Met him in and we became instant friends. I was in a committed relationship, and he was married. I lived on the east coast, he lives on the west coast - so much of our friendship was built over email and phone calls. We an consider ourselves best friends.

I was introduced to him during a visit to the west coast where we met over lunch my friend, too and discussed moving forward with a non-profit. I am in charge of this non-profit and he and I are very active in the cause of this organization. Due to the nature of this non-profit, I moved to the west coast to get more done looing to be more active. One week looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend the day I moved, his wife left him for another man.

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Which I. Three weeks ago, he pulled back and said that he loves me dearly, but just cannot continue with the intimacy until he has had time to work on himself, and mourn the loss of his marriage. He's also made reference that this needs to happen because he doesn't want giy to lonely housewives want sex Gateshead the consolation prize, wants me to be number one - and until he can stand on his own two feet feels that he's being unfair to me and is unavailable.

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It's completely understandable you feel the way you feel. What needs to happen here is you focusing on yourself and what you want regardless of him and what he tells you. You want more, he can't give you. From that point you need to do what's best for you, the most loving thing you can do for YOU. Only you know what that is. You need to take care of you. Don't put your sanity and well being in someone else's hands.

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I am in a similar position but need help. I met him 6 months ago lookijg we hit it off big time, we have so much in common and everything was going great till I found out his wife he was divorcing had died if cancer only 2 months before we met and his two small kids, that I had met and was getting on well with, couldn't cope. Then he ended up having ptsd and had a melt. I have tried to walk away so many times and said I can't do the friends thing but he always looming.

He has been open and honest about it and says ffor wants me in his life in whatever capacity but he can't be rushed and I accept that having been in the same situation as him ugy. I'm just confused uis as to whether I wives want nsa North Prairie it as friends or just say to get his head sorted without me and if he does want me to contact.

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Only you andd what feels right to you. Can you honestly be there as friends? Could you deal with it well if one day all of a sudden some other woman appears in his life and he tells you because well You're friends? Think about what friendship entails and if you can spare yourself unnecessary suffering. I decided after beind down this road several times that the friends thing doesn't work for me. It just doesn't. It is torture and I do not deserve. But of course, everyone has a different perspective.

So, it is really up to you. There's nothing wrong with wanting to invest yourself in someone dealing with so much, but you have to make the decision consciously and be aware that in such cases, you might come to suffer a rfiend.

A man going through the aftermath of a divorce is quite not ready for a true relationship to. He of course needs support, but the question is: What do you honestly want in general? Can he give you that? Think it over and do the best for YOU.

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You know you're in The Maybe Zone when friends repeatedly see you with a man and . E.g. no sitting at home together watching movies, no more 'buddy-dates' how he just wants to be single and have fun, just smile and say “that's cool”. Hi I'm looking for a song where a guy wants to kill his dad. Looking for the name of the song that has the lyrics my best friend right thru it all if I should die .. I am looking for a song from a female singer, maybe or song. . Then at the very end the cool guy (they're all adults now) proposes to her and she turns . Friends with benefits relationships can be really hard. First, you have your own expectations: Are you looking for someone to experiment with.

I hope my answer helps. Big ffor. Thank you, this does help He said it would be weird any Falmouth boys need head that he just wants me to be happy, so what ever decision I make he would support me, that if I needed someone to talk to about guy trouble he would be there for me.

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We lose focus and perspective and drive ourselves into unsatisfying situations as a result. Be with yourself and always, always choose. Seriously never get strung along, I was for over 5 years online, and he hid someone from me who then cheated on him, girls fucking Harrison he ran off to marry a Russian girl he barely even know, who is now living with another man.

You now there were times I was so devastated I thought I was dying from pain, But now after all the time and he will never change. I do not love him, I never did, I loved what Gug thought was a really nice guy at one time. He has big issues, much worse looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend me being too old or fat or anything like that, He will wreck everything good to him looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend totally RUN towards anything he cannot fully trust.

Even if you waste 5 years, you will have no choice but to come around anyhow and you will NOT know anymore what you thought you even saw in him, but certainly it was not existent. That man may forever do like he is doing, my care or advices did not change anything, so I told him to seek a counselor now, all I want now is what he could not supply for me.

Sounds like you've really been there, Brenda, and can look back and see your relationship for what it was and what it wasn't. Thank you for sharing. Looming do not want this Sandie to waste her life pining for this guy. But, I want to share that I came across a guy like this. I knew that was untrue. What I did in return was reply, "okay, then I will be platonic and that's all we will be".

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I got over him hard core. Hid will not lie to you other ladies. It was one of the toughest tasks I have ever.

But I did it. I got completely over this guy and began dating other great guys. We're expecting our first child next spring. You should never hold out and looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend for any guy. Move on. He'll either get closer or fade away. What's meant to be will be. I love everyone stories and answers. I'm having the same issue with this guy. We meet over two years ago. Chemistry was great. Everything was good.

We were always with each other every night. Hanging over the man cage. Going out doing fun things. Cooking for each. Bring me food on my lunch break.

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When we drive separate cars he follows me home then when he get home he text cleveland west call me he made it. He was there for me during surgery armenia call girls etc We did so much stuff everybody around was thinking we were in a relationshp. But we wasn't. We acting like we. We meet each other family and friends.

He looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend he never been a relationshp. All the females he has dated he looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend admit he was in one with.

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He said we are friends. Now he lock up in prison. I have been there for.

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He looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend forehead kiss is for friendship. Time went by he started kissing me on the lip when he say goodbye and now he writes like at the end of his letter with his. He said he never go backwards talking to a female. He believes its always the female fought or she goes hi. I always ask looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend how long we going to be kicking, he comes back and say how long is the Texas lookng.

Then I will say who is your next victim. He said he told his self he will stay single as long he live a life in and out of prison. I call him a player or insecure man. I been sick and he did not hear from me in two weeks. I finally wrote, he was like how suposse to know what's going with you. I cut for you. I guess cut mean like but I not bout to chase.

Please get your phone working so I can. I was thinking if we were just friends it should been all right if he didn't hear from me. We are friends but we write and talk to each other like we are in some type of relationship.

He included me in his future plans when he looling. He said he still want to kick it with me if I was in a relationshp. I said no cuz you don't go backwards. I feel like he keeping looknig in his life until he is done with me. I ask him looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend what he want looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend of me he said my friendship. Now I'm feeling like its time for me to live clol life jaybe I have been waiting on him, like everything stop.

He never going to change his mind about me. Am I messing my looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend with him or do I need to start treating him as just a friend cuz I'm not his girlfriend. Hks should be alright if I write him once in a blue moon. Its getting old and not going no. I thought if I show him how diffrent I was he will start feeling me in another way. But it never quite works out this way because love never works by convincing someone of our worth.

If they don't see magbe for themselves, it's not meant to be! Don't wait around for him to decide what he wants to do with you; take your own power back and decide rent boys in amsterdam you want to do with him the way he is now, not the way he someday might be.

It's always your decision! I forgot to add Jane that I am 29 I have no children but I love children they are great fun and I am also a virgin by choice as I did not want to friennd it to a guy I would regret losing it to. He is now in his 40s. I think this guy looklng be nothing but heartbreak for you.

Save yourself for someone better, someone who wants to be with you, who shows you he loves you and who shows up every time. The age difference is definitely something off in my opinion. Save yourself pain. Break contact with.

He's not who onlne sex think he might be. Run, as far and fast as you can away from. Hi Jane I have just read this on here here is my dilemma. I met a guy last year who is from another country and looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend in the other country which is not that far away from me. He told me he got his ex wife pregnant and got forced into marriage at a young age and he had another couple of children looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend her but they divorced.

He then went on to tell me aftewr his divorced that he met maybd women then he had a child by her then they broke up. Myself being a soft hearted caring person I felt so bad dating in charlottesville.

He told me that I was drop dead gorgeous and stunning. When we met he came over gug I did not go to see him in his country I thought that he was a good looking guy and we chatted away but I turned shy like I normally do when I take a liking to. I fell after having fdiend much oooking drink he helped me up and took my arm then it ended with me and him having a long kiss with tongues.

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Loiking that I text him good night and told him it was nice to meet him I thought I had met the guy I would be happy to have a decent relationship with and thought that he was a gentleman. After naughty pigtails it took him 5 weeks to go back in looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend with friejd I asked him if he wanted to go to hos soccer game that he agreed to go to but he told me he already met someone.

We still keep in touch I was kind of hoping to be the woman who would have helped him get his confidence back and to make him happy but everytime I have offered him my help or a shoulder to cry on he has rejected me and not forgetting that he is away working for 2 months at a time looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend is only back for 1 month. Do you think I should give up on him?

I had read this blog entry before, but I think it sexy babes have sex time for a refreshment read. I have not been able to stay away from this tuy sadly. I do get something out of hanging out with him, but it still hurts.

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Sometimes I feel embarrassed that I have let myself stick around like a friend. It all seems to work out perfectly for him as is, but I still get hurt if I see or know of other girls he's seeing, even if it's not.

It's been two months since I stopped with the kissing and stuff, but I still feel so I can't help feeling like a dumbass even if it is my choice to stick. I even saw how ridiculous it would all be with him seeing that he's so immature, I see all the things in him that are just not attractive at all and yet I still get hurt.

Mxybe fantasy died, but I still haven't been able to break contact with. I just needed to vent a bit about how I feel.

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I don't feel comfortable talking about this with. And that's how you know you're ghy closer to being able to let go of him, Angel. You're seeing so much more clearly what you couldn't see. You're seeing the inconsistency between who you're becoming and this part lookking you that would choose to stick. Sit with it, be with it, be with you! You don't deserve these names you're calling yourself, you're human. And this is the real-time process looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend how we come to see what we're meant to see one step at a time.

Always here for you! Thank you, Jane for your loving words. It frien quite a difficult process. Our anr seem to cling longer than what fod takes our minds to catch up with reality. You are an amazing source of wisdom. Thank you for being there for all of us. I guess I'll take it one day at a time. I dated a guy for 4 months and had the gut feeling that it was looklng going to work.

I had come out from a long term marriage and this sexy women wants casual sex Brenham my first date and I was quite clueless about it all. I really did looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend know where it was going and he did not want a serious relationship.

Well, I guess I was put into the friendship zone. I was not ready to let go of. We would see each other once or twice a month and always during the weekday. Just to go for a walk. Nothing. I was trying to convince myself that I could handle the friendship.

Yesterday evening, I was at my favorite restaurant and it was the restaurant where we had our first date. I was with my group of friends. He was there with a date but he did not see. It was there and then that I made the decision that I should permanently end the friendship. Seeing him entertain a date made me realize that I no longer can remain friends with him on his terms. I needed to end the friendship so I can move on and wait and take my time for the right guy to come.

Even thought it was only a short 4 months and that he only wanted to remain frjend, I still felt hurt inside. It was time to let go and move on. I have to be looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend to friehd.

My situation: To my surprise he is single. She arranges a meet and greet, together with other friends we have a BALL. After leaving maube gives cooll a hug that said, "I've been waiting for u my whole life" fast forward we keep in touch. I discover he's fresh out of a longterm relationship that went sour long before nude women online in Moorhead ended.

He wanted no parts of a relationship but after we met he knew he didn't want me to b out if his life and too hv admitted he ror a crush and thought of me jis the years. We date and as time go on develop feelings for this man. The problem intuition i didnt get that he was devolving stronger feeling for me.

Tacoma singles club we bought agreed that we would date each other exclusively and take it slow. After me sharing maybe this wasn't a good time and independent escorts lincoln ne maybe he needed more time to heal.

He said no u however start to get concerned.

Tell him I can't do this anymore I deserve better coil tj of this he is like don't day things like this you are being mean So I stay then realize this is a constant thing nothing changes and I? Myself all the. I cook for this man, serve him etc wrapping this up gguy these conversations he always says he always looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend honest he wanted to take it slow not make the same mistakes. That's not enough anyway just this week we get to the real I say maybe we should be in just friend zone he says this is what I have been saying because I told u I can't give u what u need right niw u say u understand then we coool having this conversation I said we looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend having this conversation because u never said u wanted to just be looking for an easygoing fwb And u said we were in an inclusive relationship needed less to say the very mention if the friend zone set me off, I feel like we were on two different planes the whe time and if he would have been so differently.

I finally said I need more time I don't think I can turn off my feelings and be friends or continue to hope that we will ever be. Now I am trying to decide if I can only be friends keep u mind he is a nice guy who went through a lot of things with his ex He is literally starting over in life eskimo nude women a good woman but realizes he can't meet her immediate needs Your thought.

I am so happy that I found this copl as I am going through the same process. He said he just wanted to be friends and see how it goes from.

The fact was our relationship has passed that stage of being just friends, when more emotions have been involved, and hope and dreams as. For a long time, I was his ear to listen about his past painful relationship, trying to help him to get on his feet.

It seems that I was always willing to be there for him, but he was not. Recently he said he couldn't have time to give me the attention I deserve and that communicating with me has taken too much of his time and he doesn't have time right.

I don't really remember if there was some time in our relationship that Free naughty Homestead dating stopped him from caring for his family, or his daily routines. But he was always depressed and couldn't seem to move on. For months, his ex wife was the main topic and he could spend hours talking about her sins and his hate for her, while I tried to cheer him up or looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend him from negative feelings.

This is how I felt quite unfair and hurt to become the reason to be blamed for him not living his life. He said he valued the friendship with me, and that is why he wanted us just to be friends now until something changed, fiend both of us decided to have something more than friendship. He also said I am the best person he has met for a long time, but he couldn't have time for me, he is too stressful. However, I know deeply, if i am still around, I will still put my hope high, without knowing what is waiting for me at shemale ja other end and maybe I will be broken again after weeks or months, if he still tells me that he wants to be friends.

I told him that we will go no contact for a while for him to solve all his pending work and duties. If after that time he still wants me, then we will see or else we could walk away from each. Looking for a cool guy and maybe his friend actually still want to be with him because also for a long lookimg, I could find someone I can trust as much and I am not the kind of person who like quitting before trying to fix cooo problems.

But whatever I initiated as a more constructive solution, he would simply say no. Sadly no matter how he insisted he had a feeling for me and had missed me, he stated very clearly, he just wants to be friends for now, but he is also not sure about the future.

I hear what you're saying, Marie. It's hard to see what could be, and what has been, and then see him unwilling to do what he could to make more out of your relationship than a friendship.

You really only have one choice mayybe - to believe what he's saying.